| Location | Norfolk |
| Age | 60 years |
| Date of Birth | 7/1937 |
| Date of Death | 9/1997 |
| Visitors | 1,656 since 26/03/2008 |
| Creator |
My DAD Norman Whiffen, Norfolk, England. Died tragically on 7th September 1997 aged 60yrs. He was
taken from me so suddenly when i was 25yrs old, as anyone who knew him would know, such sadness to
cope with and so many things unsaid. A great business man, a Coal Merchant with such a loving
family, children, grandchildren and more grandchildren who will never have the pleasure in knowing
their loving grandad. Couldnt have wanted more, but we just dont know what's going to happen
next, what is just around the corner for us. I just know you always want us to think you are just in
the next room, never far away. Such a loving Dad, husband to mum, and Grandad to 12 grandchildren. I
had two children when i lost you and we talk about you often, i now have five and its so sad they
never knew their loving grandad.
Such a respected man loved by so many, always helping others, so many people with stories to tell of
being helped by you in a time of need and missed by so many, especially me. My life was ripped apart
and has never repaired since, just still seems like yesterday with every day that passes life is so
unfair. That awful day will stay with me forever i would give anything for just one day with you
again, to say goodbye. I love you now as i did then but miss you so much more as time passes by its
so hard without you.
Its nice to share memories and to feel you're not alone so please light a candle for my special
Dad he was one in a million, a precious loving man
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MISS YOU DAD 12 YRS TOO LONG XX
Oh dad ur missed more every day, needed more in every way.
No words for this but just to say i wish for one more day, one more minute just to say,
I LOVE YOU DAD XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
12 yrs have passed on the 7th, not long now im so sad and deeply thinking of us such good days, but they are no more xxx MISS YOU XXXX
CANDLES FOR THE WEEKEND
I WILL BE AWAY FOR THE WEEK END ANGEL WILL BE THINKING OF YOU
THURSDAY CANDLE
Within our store of memories,
You hold a place apart,
For no one else can ever be,
More cherished in our hearts.
LOVE SIMONE XXXX
FRIDAY CANDLE
Resting where no shadows fall,
In peaceful sleep he awaits us all;
God will link the broken chain,
When one by one we meet again.
LOVE ALWAYS SIMONE XXX
SATURDAY CANDLE
Somewhere over the rainbow
Theres a bright new light
Its comes from this candle
Ive lit for you tonight.
LOVE ALWAYS SIMONE
Tribute For This Weekend
Candles will be lit as usual
On Sunday For Monday
A LITTLE HUG ♥♥♥
A little hug from me to you
To make you smile
When your feeling blue,
To make you happy
When your sad
To let you know life aint so bad
Now I have given
A hug to you
Somehow I feel
Much better too
Hugs are better
When they there shared
So pass this on to show you care...
♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥
MY LITTLE ANGEL
You’ve just walked on ahead of me
And I’ve got to understand
You must release the ones you love
And let go of their hand.
I try and cope the best I can
But I’m missing you so much
If I could only see you
And once more feel your touch.
Yes, you’ve just walked on ahead of me
Don’t worry I’ll be fine
But now and then I swear I feel
Your hand slip into mine.
♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥HX♥
FOUR CANDLES
The first candle represents our grief.
The pain of losing you is intense
It reminds us of the depth of our love for you.
The second candle represents our courage.
To confront our sorrow,
To comfort each other,
To change our lives.
This third candle we light in your memory.
For the times we laughed,
The times we cried,
The times we were angry with each other,
The silly things you did,
The caring and joy you gave us.
The fourth candle is just for being you
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GOOD-BYE
I know my time has ended,
Its time for me to leave.
I want you all to know,
You mean so much to me.
Why I had to go,
Was a mystery to me.
All I heard was God,
Saying “ Please come home to me.”
So I left my friends and family,
I didn’t say goodbye.
All I got to see,
Were the tears in their eyes.
But as I saw them crying,
I asked them not to grieve.
Knowing how much we care,
That our love will never cease.
You can look up at the sky,
And look over to the sea.
When you feel that gentle breeze,
You always think of me.
When your time comes,
To join me up above.
We will be reunited,
And still, we’ll have our love.
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I CAN'T REMEMBER
Just a line to say I'm living
That I'm not among the dead
Though I'm getting more forgetful
And mixed up in my head.
I got used to arthritis,
To my dentures I'm resigned,
I can manage my bifocals,
But God, I miss my mind.
For sometimes I can't remember,
When I stand at the foot of the stair
If I must go up for something
Or have I just come down from there?
And before the fridge so often,
My poor mind is filled with doubt,
Have I just put the food away,
Or have I come to take some out?
And there's the time when it is dark
With my nightcap on my head,
I don't know if I'm retiring,
Or just getting out of bed.
If it's my turn to write you,
There's no need for getting sore,
I may think that I have written
And don't want to be a bore.
Remember that I love you
And wish that you were near.
Now it is nearly mail time,
So I must say goodbye dear.
There I stand beside the mailbox,
With face so very red,
Instead of mailing you my letter,
I had opened it instead.
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Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela(Christopher-John Rowe)Mum
For Friday
XXX MY DAD XXX
My Dad so special, my Dad so true,
another New Year to spend sadly without you.
I hope you can see us all remembering your smile,
& when the clock struck midnite i sat for a while...
...Thinking of you my so very special Dad,
a precious Dad like no other i once had.
I would give the whole world to have one more day,
I LOVE YOU more than ever, is what i would say.
But ill never have that one day i'd love with you,
the silent tears and sorrow if you only knew.
LOVE YOU DAD MISS U SO MUCH XXX YOUR BABY XXX
WRITTEN BY LINDA SAWICKI - HUTT.XXX
YOU WERE MY SUNSHINE ON A WINTER DAY
WHEN I WAS LOST YOU LIT MY WAY
I PRAY I'LL BE WITH YOU AGAIN
TO END MY GRIEF AND HEEL MY PAIN
ITS NOT THE SAME WITHOUT YOU HERE
YOUR PICTURES I CANT HELP BUT STARE
SO DEAR IS WHAT YOU ARE TO ME
INSIDE MY HEART YOU'LL ALWAYS BE
YOUR FACE I SEE THROUGH TEARFUL EYES
MY SMILE IS JUST MY BRAVE DISGUISE
BUT NO ONE CRIES IN HEAVEN ABOVE
THERE IS NO PAIN THERE'S ONLY LOVE
A PURE WHITE DOVE SENDS ME YOUR PEACE
TO HELP ME COPE AND FEEL AT EASE
AND PLEASE GOD ANSWER JUST ONE PREAYER
TAKE CARE OF MY LOSS SO DEAR.
Gone are the days we used to share,
But in our hearts you are always there;
The gates of memory will never close,
We miss you more than anyone knows;
With tender love and deep regret,
We who love you will never forget.
"Let it not be said my life was in vain;
I've just moved on to a higher plane,
So I can keep better watch over you,
As you move on the way you need to do.
Though my life has reached an end,
I'm waiting for you around the bend.
I beg you-- please don't weep for me!
It's not so bad, for soon you'll see
That I will linger long past this sunset
In the hearts of you who love me yet."
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I HOPE THAT YOU ALL HAVE A SPECIAL WEEKEND FILLED
WITH LOVE,HEALTH AND HAPPINESS AND BEAUTIFUL
MEMORIES OF OUR ANGELS,TAKECARE MY FRIENDS
AND GOD BLESS EACH AND EVERY ONE OF YOU,
WITH LOVE AS ALWAYS LINDA.XXX
WHISPERING WINDS.
I HEAR THEM WHISPER YOUR NAME,
THOSE MIGHTY WINDS THAT BLOW.
T KNOW THAT YOU ARE CLOSE AT HAND
THE WINDS JUST TOLD ME SO.
THE DIRECTION FROM WHENCE THEY BLEW,
I'M NOT SURE I KNOW.
FOR ONLY WHEN I HEAR YOUR NAME,
AM I SURE THE WINDS DID BLOW.
CARESSING MY FACE WITH A WHISPER.
CALLING OUT YOUR NAME.
THE WINDS OF DELIGHT ENTICE ME.
I WILL NEVER BE THE SAME.
I WILL FOLLOW THE SINGING WIND,
AND WHERE IT LEADS I'LL GO.
FOR THE WIND THAT BLEW YOU TO ME,
WILL TAKE ME WHERE I MUST GO.
UPWARD INTO THE HILLS.
CALMLY ACROSS THE SEA.
HOLD ON MY LOVE, IM COMING,
THE WINDS HAVE SET ME FREE.
FREE TO LOOK AND SEARCH THIS EARTH
NO MATTER HOW FAR THAT MAY BE.
FREE TO FOLLOW THW WHISPERING WIND,
UTIL IT BLOWS ME BACK TO THEE.
I HEAR YOUR LAUGHTER ON THE WIND.
I TRY WITH ALL MY MIGHT
TO REACH OUT TO YOU
ON THIS WINDY NIGHT.
I FEEL YOU GETTING CLOSE TO ME.
I FEEL YOUR WHISPERD LOVE.
I WILL REACH MY HAND TO YOU
YOU GRASP MY HAND IN YOURS
AND SOFTLY SPEAK MY NAME,
OUT OF THE WHISPERING WINDS
WE ARE TOGETHER AGAIN.
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GOOD AFTERNOON MY FRIEND
Nothing is ever truly gone
like a puddle of water after the rain
It evaporates back into the clouds
and sometime later returns again.
Like the memory you'll forever hold
of your loved one that pasted on.
They are a part of your thoughts and heart
therefore they'll forever live on.
Yet as for now they are resting
for now they are at peace.
Say so long, never goodbye,
until once again in heaven you'll meet.
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i hope that you all have a good day,
and takecare my friend.
with love as always linda.xxx
opened up a box one day
What treasures did I find!
Letters and some photographs
Of days we left behind
I drifted back to yesterday
The thought was oh, so clear
For just a moment, anyway
It felt like you were here
I smile when I think of you
Sometimes I cry so much
I'm all alone without you now
I crave to feel your touch
But God had other plans for you
An Angel he did find
So now my box of memories
Is all that's left behind
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thank you my friends for all
your lovely support it means
so very much to me and my karl.
i hope that you all a good monday
god bless you all and takecare.
with love as always linda.xxx
WE ARE ALWAYS TOGETHER
EVEN THOUGH WE ARE APART
THOUGH DISTANCE MAY BE BETWEEN
WE ARE NEVER SEPARATE IN HEART.
FOR WHEN WE ARE TOGETHER
WE MAKE BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES
SO WE ARE ALWAYS CLOSE
EVEN THROUGH MOUNTAINS,VALES,OR SEA.
THROUGH THE GENTLE WISPER OF BREEZE
OR STARS ON A MOONLIGHT NIGHT
OUR LOVE TALKS TO OUR HEART
WITH WORDS MADE JUST RIGHT.
OUR HEARTS ARE ALWAYS ONE
THOUGH THEY MAY BE TWO
YOU ARE ALWAYS HERE WITH ME
AS I AM ALWAYS THERE WITH YOU.
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I HOPE YOU ALL LIKE THIS NATIVE AMERICAN POEM
AS MUCH AS I DO, AND TO LET YOU KNOW I WILL BE AWAY THIS WEEKEND. SO I HOPE THAT YOU ALL HAVE
A LOVELY WEEKEND AND TAKE GOOD CARE OF YOURSELF
WITH LOVE AS ALWAYS LINDA.XXX
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